A Redditor had shared a story she experienced while she was pregnant. The woman explained that her husband didn’t helped her when she needed while she was pregnant with their child, and decided to stay with his mother, and left his wife alone. She ended up with giving an ultimatom to her husband.
The Redditor had explained that she was six months of pregnant when the issue started. “My husband is a complete mommas boy. He’ll call his mother for hours and talk to her and spend time with her more than he does with me.” OP shared.
OP asked to her husband to be more with her, and help her to set their house ready for their child, who will be born in a few months.
But her husband was spending his whole time with his mother. He was talking with her on the phone for hours, and constantly visiting her house, as he was leaving pregnant OP home alone. When she confronted with her husband, the man said, “You know my mom comes before you.”
As OP was shocked. As she was preparing the nursery alone, when her husband was with his mother, the mother-in-law had called her, and said that she was the winner. It was a terrible experience for OP to hear the bragging of her mother-in-law, over the father of her grandchild.
Few weeks later, the anniversary of the couple arrived. OP had prepared a dinner, and bought a gift for her husband. As she waited, for her husband, she needed to go to the bathroom. At that moment, her husband came from work, and left to his mother’s house.
Hours later, he was still at his mother’s house. OP called him and learned that, and she said that he can have his child with his mother too, because he was acting as if he was in a relationship with his mother.
After she hung the phone up, her mother-in-law had texted her that she was being disrespectful, and she should find herself to spend time with.
When the Redditor talked with other Redditors about the matter, she said, “I think my MIL is competing with me, and I might even have to give my husband [an] ultimatum because after reading these comments, things could only get worse from here.”
Then the OP decided to give the ultimatom to her husband. She said if he will keep acting as if he was married to his mother, she will divorce him. That ultimatom made her husband cry, and he promised that he will change.
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