A mother shared a story on Reddit’s “AITA” subreddit. The woman had explained that she arranged a family trip, but they had a problem when her daughter couldn’t find her passaport.
The mother shared the story on the 14th of 2022. The mother had talked about her husband first. they were together for three years, and her husband had three other children from his past marriage.
OP had one daughter from her former marriage. Her daughter was 17, and she was the oldest child in the house. OP described her husband as “He’s a dedicated man, puts God first and loves everyone.”
Her husband also would talk about how her daughter wouldn’t spend time with her step-siblings and himself. But her daughter was spending too much time in school and work, and she had some health problems too. And she was trying her best to interact with her step-siblings.
And her daughter was also annoyed with the fact that her step-father was looking at her as a babysitter too. When OP confronted with her husband about the issue, the husband refused and stated that OP’s daughter was making things up to not spending time with her step-siblings.
Then OP thought about a family trip which would brought them together. As husband agreed, he explained that he is feeling concerned about the behaviour of OP’s daughter. And he wanted her daughter to stay at home as he stated that she would want that too.
OP disagreed with her husband, and wanted all of them to go together to their family trip. As she was not accepting her husband’s suggestions, she wanted him to stop.
OP had paid and arranged everything for their trip. But things went south when her daughter couldn’t find her passaport. No matter how much they searched for it, they couldn’t find the passaport, and her husband stated that it was a divine intervention.
Then a little while later, OP found the passaport in her husband’s office drawer. As she was suspicious about her husband, she confronted him and he explained that he was innocent.
Then she looked through their security cameras, and she saw that her husband had entered her daughter’s bedroom.
She confronted him again, and she decided to cancel the trip. OP shared her husband’s behaviour after the event as, “He [became] cold and distant and said that he wants to take some time to do some fasting and get guidance from God about how he should deal with the disrespect and control I had displayed lately.”
As she explained her story, she asked for advice from the Redditors. The Redditors had stated that she was not the problem one in the relationship, and she should leave the husband for his manipulative and terrible treatment towards her daughter.
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