A 39-year-old Redditor had shared a story about how her mother-in-law had cut and straighened her daughter’s hair. The Redditor had explained that her mother-in-law had lied everyone about how she had informed her and agreed on cutting the hair of her daughter.
The mother had shared that with her husband, Cole, they had a 14-year-old daughter, Vihana. OP later explained that she is a woman from South Asia, and her husband was white. For the rest of their weekend, her mother-in-law wanted to spend time with her granddaughter, and she took her for the weekend.
As occasionally her in-laws would spend time with her daughter, so she was not concerned about anything. And her daughter, Vihana also was perfectly fine during their phone calls and texts.
And when the weekend was over, and the mother-in-law brought Vihana back, OP was shocked, as she saw that her daughter’s hair was shoulder-lenght. OP wrote, I was shocked to see her almost waist-length hair was now shoulder-length and that it was now straightened. Vihana has been determined to grow her hair out since she was in the sixth grade and has expressed no desire to straighten her normally curly hair before.”
As her daughter was crying, she explained that her grandmother stated that OP had let her work with her hair, and that was the reason why they never talked about it when they were talking over the phone.
As OP talked with her father-in-law too, the old man was shocked when he learned that OP had no idea what was happening. He immediately confronted with his wife, and then left the house think about their marriage.
OP then texted to her mother-in-law that she was banned to see Vihana on her own, and she was only able to unless her husband, OP’s father-in-law was with her. And she said that things will not change even if she apologizes from Vihana, until OP believes that she took her lesson.
As the mother-in-law was pissed, she bombarded OP’s phone and then her sister-in-law had texted and called her.
OP’s sister-in-law had called her mean names and accused her with neglecting Vihana, and stated that her mother, the mother-in-law was doing what she was not capable of.
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