A 38-year-old Redditor woman had shared her story on Reddit’s “Surviving Infidelity,” subreddit. The woman explained that they had a nanny who was working for them for two years. She was 22 years old, and many people recommended her.
She was taking care of the three children of the OP and her husband. The nanny was coming along with the family to their vacations to Hawaii, Florida, and Mexico. As OP was happy that she was having free time while their nanny was caring for the children, she started to get suspicious of her.
OP was working as a corporate events planner. The bussiest day for the week for her would be Saturdey, and sometimes she would come home at night. And she would expect their nanny to be gone by that hour, since her children would be in their beds by 10:30 p.m.
One morning, OP saw that the nanny was still in the house. She saw that the nanny was wearing her coat, as OP entered, and her husband was behind their nanny. When OP asked what she was doing, the nanny explained that the husband and herself were watching a movie together. Her husband said, “It’s not like she’s a stranger in the house.”
As OP got suspicious, she decided to install some hidden cameras in the house to observe, and find a proof of affair. She also hired a private investigator to learn that if her husband was cheating on her. OP also stated that during their time in Hawaii, her husband would leave their room everynight, as he would say that he couldn’t sleep. And on the last day of their trip, both the nanny and her husband had trouble waking up.
“Y’all both have something in common.” OP said to them at that time, as her husband and their was awaken. Sadly, she realized the common things later.
She saw her husband waiting for the nanny at the den, from the cameras she installed. When she reached to her home after she left work, she started to watch the footage from the cameras, while her husband was sleeping.
In the footage, OP saw that her husband and their nanny were intimate in front of their kids, and after the nanny put them to sleep, they had kissed. Then they entered to the guest bedroom. As she wanted advice if she should confront with her husband immediately, or try to catch him on act, Redditors stated that she should talk with a lawyer.
Then some months later, in her last update, OP stated that their nanny was not the only woman her husband had an affair with. As OP confronted her husband, she wrote, “He then made it seem like I was denying him affection and sex and even went as far as insinuating that I was having an affair,”
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As their argument had led to their divorce, OP shared that she felt relieved after the weight was lifted from her shoulders. “Our oldest daughter (she is still angry with me and it breaks my heart because I love her so much) wants to live with her father,” OP stated.
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