A female Redditor had shared her story on the 8th of April, 2021, in the “AITA” subreddit of Reddit. 29-year-old woman shared that she had a short relationship with Joe, who was 30, for three months. Joe wanted to reunite with his ex, Kim, and with OP, they got separated.
“Right after we broke up I found out I was pregnant and now I’m at 24 weeks. I let him know and he was ecstatic,” OP shared.
Then OP learned that her ex’s current girlfriend was infertile. And she shared that there is no way of rekindlind the flame with Joe, for OP, and Jor is committed in his relationship with Kim.
At the first appointment, they learned that they were expecting twins. As Joe talked with Kim about the situation, Kim had various reactions regarding her situation with her own fertility problems.
As OP went to Joe’s house after they invited her over for a talk, Kim expressed her feelings to be involved in the pregnancy and the lives of the twins. OP shared the detalis as, “She started telling me that I needed to do a home birth, that I needed to formula feed so that they could have the babies half of the week, that she wanted one boy and one girl, and that she wanted the kid to call her Mama since they would be calling me Mommy.”
As OP was shocked, she rejected the details where Kim wanted to pe part of the pregnancy. But as she wasn’t aware, Kim and Joe were already planned their moves.
Kim kept annoyed OP with the messages regarding her diet and exercise. When OP went to virtuaş genetics counseling, Joe couldn’t attend, and Kim wanted to be there with OP. Kim had constantly talked about her own family bacground. And for the 20-week level 2 scan date arrived, Kim wanted to be with OP again, but OP refused.
Then Joe went with the OP, and learned the gender of the twins. OP wanted to not know as she wanted to surprise herself. After OP shared some news from her social media account, she later saw that Kim had shared her own post about OP’s pregnancy too.
Kim had shared that with her man, they experienced a “non-traditional” pregnancy, and said that they were expecting twins.
As OP was annoyed with her post, she decided to stay silent. Then Kim throw a gender reveal party, and a baby shower, without informing OP. As OP was thinking that Kim was only happy to be a stepmother, when OP saw the posts of Kim on the social media, she decided to intervene.
OP shared that she felt like a surrogate, and confronted with Kim on the social media. OP shared that she is the mother of the twins, and underlined her maternal rights. Then she talked with Joe too, regarding her concerns over Kim’s actions.
Then Joe, Kim and their friends and family named OP as the bad person. Kim’s mother had suggested that OP should give one of the twins to Kim, which was out of the line.
Then OP hired a lawyer as she received many advices from the Redditors, which she revealed in one of the updates she gave on her post. She even thought that her pregnancy might be even intentional, and she also contacted the police. But the police didn’t intervened, as there was no crime committed at that moment.
Then she was able to get an order of protection against Joe and Kim. She then talked with her lawyer, and she learned that she had limited options regarding the custody of the twins, until they were born.
To reduce the risks she would take, she had changed state she was living, and went to a state where the mother has her rights to have her children with her.
Kim was so violent against OP, after the events. She had attacked her car, and tried to abuse her in OP’s workplace. And she even got arrested for multiple offenses.
As she moved to another state, and has many proofs about the violent and terrible actions of Kim and Joe, she had took the legal action.
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